Happy Life with a Russian Wife

Posted By admin on April 7, 2010

Ludmila was a translator at a travel agency in a big city. Once, she worked with a group of Americans who had come on a business trip to Russia. On the eve of his departure, Bob, one of the group participants, confessed his love for her and gave her a splendid rose during a live program on the local television… Their love affair lasted for four years before Ludmila decided to move to the U.S. She has lived in America for ten years already. She is successful in her work. In addition, Ludmila is the key person unifying the local Russian community.

Natalia was found by her future husband in the Internet. Rather, his grown-up children found her for him. Having looked at her picture and description at a dating website, they stated that she suited their father perfectly well. Six months later, they married in Russia, and in two years, Natasha moved to Michigan. A year later, she started her own business there.

Another Natalia married a few years later after coming to America as a Russian company representative, having founded her own business. Sasha got acquainted with her husband in a partner American company in Russia. Nina met her future husband at a sermon… Once in Alaska I talked to a woman who had married her two daughters to Americans. When she came to visit them, she went to Las Vegas in search of a rich husband even without knowing English. However, I do not know the continuation of her story.

These are different destinies, different paths. All are good or bad in each individual case. But the first step that needs to be done is to admit that you want to marry. I speak specifically to those beautiful Russian women, who assure themselves and others that they do not need anything with the gloom of solitude in their eyes. And to those who say that all they need is their children and grandchildren doing well. I do not take into account the few business women who have deliberately chosen celibacy and are happy in their careers or community activities. Most of the responses I’ve heard from women were filled with despair based on their previous negative experiences and the fear of rejection – especially if they were already over forty, and it seemed worthless to compete with the younger and slimmer.

Working in a Russian newspaper, I asked once my unmarried friends to write a “want a husband” ad in a newspaper. Gosh, what was happening! The clever and beautiful ladies, who were, for many reasons, lonely and suffering from their solitude, lost their abilities to think, write and read, all at the same time. Just one of them managed to finish a paragraph and send it to the newspaper. However, she stalled off the candidates whenever she heard a male voice on the phone. She was awfully afraid of disappointment.

Meanwhile, there is a natural craving in each of us to have a loving partner, regardless of age. It has long been proved that without a certain amount of kind touches during the day a child would develop worse, and an adult would get sick. There is even a trend called healing touch in therapy. So happy couples live longer, and family people get sick less often. That’s the statistics.

To be continued.

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