Look Who Is Talking. Part Two.
admin | May 27, 2010
This is particularly true about money issues. When I visit forums of women living overseas, I see a lot of angry and desperate comments and topics. When I ask them, “Why not discuss it with your husbands and simply resolve the issues?” the chorus of voices rises. Those voices say, “He supports me as is,” or “He is obliged to support me, but he is a jerk (excuse my French) who does not want to understand my needs.” All this comes from misunderstanding, and the misunderstanding comes from a very low self-esteem, or from excessive demands, or from some unconscious internal beliefs. But when all this is realized, when all this is articulated and discussed, many problems can be avoided. And you are an example for me in this sense, because you did not only dream about your love come true, but chose it by saying some important things, thus having escaped big problems.